Growing up, my family always had a big party for my sister and my birthdays. Our birthdays are four days apart, and it was always easier to have a big party for the both of us, so I’ve grown accustomed to having big birthday parties. I won’t lie, I’d love to have a big celebration, but I also have one big fear.
What if I throw a party and no one shows up?
I know, it sounds stupid, but it’s a legitimate worry that I have, so I usually try to do several events.
Here are thirty three ideas that I have for birthday events. I’m not going to get to do all of them, but at least there’s a starting point.
- Go Camping
- Ice Cream Social
- Birthday Breakfast
- Birthday Lunch
- Birthday Dinner
- Tres Leches Cake Tasting
- Karaoke Room
- Picnic Party
- Swing Dancing
- Wine and Cheese Tasting
- Board Game Party
- Escape Room
- Make Art
- Make a Movie
- Pool Party
- Tea Party
- Mall Rats Scavenger Hunt
- City Scavenger Hunt
- Blazer Tag
- Food Crawl
- Build a Bear
- Lush Treatment
- Get a Massage
- Rock Climbing
- Rent Bikes and Ride
- Cocktail Crawl
- Musical Marathon
- Crazy Outfit Thrifting
- Cupcake Decorating
- Amusement Park
- Costume Party
- Day Trip
- Birthday Blessings/Prayers
To living the dream. To moving across the country to be able to pursue that dream. To finding opportunities to use my gifts in acting, singing, dancing, and playing ukulele. To being paid for those artistic endeavors.
To being validated, and seen for who you are, however artistic and strange that may be. To working on projects that don’t make sense and don’t need to make sense.
To working with artists who make an effort to represent diversity in a real way- who open their hearts and share their stories, and make you cry with their pain and laugh with their moments of joy. To being heard loud and clear without speaking a word in English. To singing about the injustice and making the truth known.
To writing something and see that writing from page to stage. To dreaming and seeing that dream continuously deferred, but it finally happening- small and unpretentious, but it took place.
To making an effort to bring life to the small parts in big casts, and to sitting through the long and tiring rehearsals to finally make it to opening night.
To looking forward to the artistic journey you are embarking on and to be excited about the future projects that are awaiting to be seen.
To never giving up on that dream, no matter how many times you get knocked down or are told not to waste their time auditioning because they aren’t looking for your ‘type’. To living the dream you’ve had in you since you were young. To reach for it again and again.
After watching Viva Las Vegas, I want Rusty’s wardrobe:
Around February, I had made a goal to the Oscar winners of the past, and predictably, life got hectic, and all my goals went down the porcelain pee-hole. But in an effort to pick up where I left off, I now present the second annual Academy Awards winner for Best Picture (1930):
THE BROADWAY MELODY 0f 1929
This film features a love triangle between the vaudville act known as the Mahoney Sisters, Hank (Bessie Love) and Queenie (Anita Page), and song and dance performer, Eddie Kerns (Charles King), who is engaged to Hank. Let the drama begin! When Hank isn’t being a bossy bitch, and Queenie isn’t being a whiney drunken mess, and Eddie isn’t constantly fawning over Queenie in a creepster way, it’s filled with lots of old tunes, one liners, and zingers are a-plenty.
Here’s one of my favorite numbers from the movie:
I was introduced to the world of Jane Austen by my sister. I read Pride and Prejudice, and like most of its readers, I fell in love with Mr. Darcy. All these years later, I’ve watched many of the movies, BBC televised mini-series, read some of the spin off books, and even made some regency era costumes.
<—- This is one of the gowns I made with cream colored satin and lace, and I also made the plum/maroon colored coat that Rob is wearing.
This year, I had made a resolution to do more for my love of Jane Austen, and I’m happy to report what I’ve been up since then. I started my pursuit of Austen activities in January with Alamo Drafthouse’s Afternoon Tea: Sense and Sensibility. After that, I joined the Jane Austen Society of North America (JASNA), and I’ve started to read Mansfield Park, which is JASNA’s focus in 2014.
(Dirndl and Shoes from Modcloth; Hairstyle: Boho Crown Braid; Banquette from World Market )
In addition to all these things, I went to one of my regions first JASNA meetings, where we had a lecture on English Country Dancing, and were later joined by a group of dancers who taught us how to dance. It was a lot of fun, and it made me excited to do some more costuming and start to learn some English Country Dance, so I could have a Lizzy and Darcy moment myself.